2. Give your love life priority
Making love should be one of the most important parts of a relationship, yet many of us devote just 20 minutes at the end of the occasional day.
Adults have many demands on their time and energy, but take your role as your partner's lover as seriously as you take your roles as worker, parent, friend, etc. Set aside time to make love properly.
3. Revive the dating game
Remember when you would meet up for dates, go out somewhere pleasant, talk together and look forward to getting up close and personal
Agree with your partner that you will devote every Wednesday night or whenever to talking, sharing a drink and a DVD, relaxing together.
Sex must not be compulsory - but there's a good chance you will both fancy it.
4. Make the most of the unexpected
If you suddenly realise you can both be home from work early one day, don't mow the lawn or clean the cupboard. Use that precious gift of unexpected time together to add the freshness of variety to your loving
5. Vary your setting
If you always make love in your good old double bed, look for chances to vary WHERE you make love as well as when.
6. Learn massage
To be touched caringly is one of our most basic human needs - as crucial a food and drink - but all too often touching gets cut down to a minimum, even by couple having sex.
Sharing skilled, all-over body massage brings great physical pleasure and relaxation to both the giver and receiver.
7. Separate sex from the rest
No relationship is perfect. Do be careful not to let petty irritations get in the way of making love.
8. Take a trip
Don't let cheats have all the fun. At least once a year, get away with your legitimate partner to spend as long as possible alone together in a pleasant setting.
9. Share a bath or a shower
Not just sex in the shower. The bathroom has an atmosphere of relaxed intimacy. Make it a habit that one of you sits and chats while the other baths or showers.
10. Sort out the turn-offs
Sometimes husbands and wives develop habits or traits that put off their partner sexually. Talk honestly about what the problem is.
Common, you want all 50 now, will post another 10 another day. Enjoy
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