Why relationship fails – undefined.

Last night was movie night, it was fun. I watched a film called "Something New" with the entire crew in the house. It focused on cross racial marriage.

The lead actress, a successful single black lady said something (to a guy that wanted to start a relationship with her) that caught my attention and is worth sharing with you all today.
She said, "I don't know what I'm looking for but I know it's not here."

At first glance you will think, "what a loser!" But the statement is loaded with clarity and definiteness. She was unable to articulate what she really wants but knows what she does not want! That's a great start.

Do you know what you don't want in life? Knowing what you don't want will help you identify what you really want. I can sure relate with her. You may not be where you have envisioned but that does not give you licence to accept what you don't want.
The world respects and honours those that know what they want or reject what they don't want in life. You have put up with that long enough.
Speak out and deliver yourself from your compromising self. 

Have a great weekend.

Wole Sosanya.

Great piece. A must read for everyone entering or in a relationship. Define your relationship early and save yourself heartache.