For
some women, the joy of pregnancy is all they ever dream of especially after their wedding night. Many
spend millions to achieve this seemingly simple goal while others
never achieve it for no fault of theirs even after spending millions
through assisted pregnancy procedures. Adoption usually ends up as there
only option to becoming a parent.
So
it comes with great shock for a woman to now abort several
pregnancies all because she wants to have the undivided attention of
her husband, not wanting to share the affections and attention of her husband with
anyone including any baby.
Rowena
has gotten pregnant twice since her marriage to Rogers 30 years
ago. First when she was 21 years and then 9 years later but every
time, the end-result has been the same without any hesitation, she aborted
both pregnancies. And she doesn't guilty. Not at all.
According
to her the result of those two terminations have resulted in an
incredibly happy marriage. (For real!)
“Quite
simply, we have enjoyed the most wonderful, loving, adventurous life
together, while I've watched friends with children struggle to
maintain their marriages, not always successfully. Their problems, in
my opinion, have been caused by putting their children first and
their husbands second.''
I
can put my hand on my heart and say I have always put Roger first, as
he has with me. I believe we owe our long, fulfilling and deeply
affectionate marriage to the fact we chose to remain childless.''
Rowena
married Roger in 1985, three years after the met, they were both 21.
After
their wedding, the nods, winks and innuendos started on their wedding
day as they usually do with people alluding to the family they were
sure to create.
'Enjoy
her while you can,' men guffawed, giving Roger a manly,
conspiratorial slap on the back.
But
somehow they knew within themselves that they were not going to have
any children.
''I
can't remember who initiated it, but we were wrapped in each other's
arms one evening when the subject of children came up.
I
already knew I loved Roger far too much to have children with him
and, thankfully, he confessed he didn't want them either. A baby, we
agreed, would change the blissful dynamic of our relationship.''
However,
a few months after our wedding, I discovered I was pregnant. I was
horrified: I'd been careful about taking the Pill, but it must have
failed. I felt cheated and furious.
That
feeling of protective, maternal love people talk about didn't happen.
I saw the pregnancy as a mistake, something neither of us wanted. An
abortion felt like our only option.
Of
course, there were other reasons for my aversion to having a family:
I worried that a baby would ruin my figure and I'd lose the interest
of my handsome husband, someone I felt was in another league to me
when it came to looks.
Roger
didn't need any convincing, so a week later we went together to a
private abortion clinic. There were no tears or nerves as we strode
in. He stayed by my side the whole time.
You
can read the full article Dailymail.co.uk . Just incredibly.
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