She
would be the world's horrific reminder that people can and do leave their
children in hot cars.
"The
pain -- it's not like a normal death in your family where you lose a child ...
you get to grieve and move on," Balfour said, her voice cracking.
"That pain is every day. It's always there. It never goes away."
Leaving
a child in a car seems unfathomable to many. Isn't a child a caregiver's
priority at all times? What kind of person just forgets? If you are quick to
say, 'I could never,' consider that people who devote their lives to studying
these incidents say that anyone of any age or profession is liable to do it. So
are people who are educated and not, rich, poor or middle class, mothers as
much as fathers. It happens more than one might think: about three to four
times a month in the United States. Criminal charges can vary widely from case
to case.
On
Thursday, a suburban Atlanta dad whose toddler died after he left him in a car
for seven hours on a sweltering summer day will appear in court. Justin Ross
Harris faces murder and second-degree child cruelty charges.
It
has been seven years since Balfour forgot her 9-month-old Bryce in her backseat
while she spent hours at work. That morning she was rushing to deal with an
emergency at her Charlottesville, Virginia, job. Her routine was off. She
normally dropped Bryce off at day care.
But
that day she had tucked the 9-month-old in a car seat directly behind her
driver's seat, rather than his usual spot behind the passenger seat. She
parked, got out and went inside to work.
About
4 p.m., the sitter called her to see how Bryce was doing.
Balfour
paused. She was confused. Wasn't the baby with his sitter?
"No,
Lyn, you didn't drop him off this morning," the babysitter answered.
Stunned,
realizing what she'd done, Balfour ran to her car. She started CPR on Bryce.
The
mother's cries for help would be heard on a 911 call later played in court, but
it was too late.
Overheated,
Bryce died.
How
often does it happen?
At
least 44 children died in 2013 from heatstroke caused by being left in cars in
the United States, according to national nonprofit organization
KidsAndCars.org. At least 13 children have died this year for the same reason.
Over the past decade, the group figures, there have been at least 388 children
who have died of vehicular heatstroke.
You can read the full story and watch the video Here.
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