Children
who encounter family break-up are far more likely to be violent,
unhappy and feel unfulfilled throughout their lives, according to an
NHS study.
Researchers
found that the turmoil endured by youngsters has a crucial influence
on nearly every facet of their later life.
A
cross-section of 1,500 people were asked if they had faced a range of
11 circumstances, known as adverse childhood experiences (ACEs),
covering abuse, family break-up, being raised with domestic violence
and drink or drug addiction.
Coupled
with details of their current lives, the research revealed the legacy
of broken homes appears to weigh more heavily than any other factor,
as among the worst affected group – those with four or more ACEs –
two thirds had seen their parents go their separate ways, compared
with an average of 24 per cent.
The
chances of suffering a difficult childhood leapt for those born after
1971, when the law changed to make divorce easier. This generation
was found to be significantly more likely to smoke, drink heavily,
take drugs, fight, be mentally ill and have sex underage.
Even with these ACEs, a lot of parents are willing to sacrifice their children for the pleasure of another relationship even when it's not worth it. Purely for pleasure. So sad.
Divorce is extremely hard, especially on children but with the right support system we turn out alright! When my parents were getting divorce I had a lot of love and support from family and friends and even my mother's lawyer, Marshall Davis Brown Jr. who was willing to answer all of the questions I had.
ReplyDeleteDivorce is hard on everyone but its harder on the children. Am glad yours worked out right. Thanks for the comment.
DeleteThank you so much!
Delete