On a
rainy day in October 2012, 21-year-old Leah Ahonsu, fell into a deep slumber
she would have wished she did not wake up from.
After
a hectic day at the market, she returned home with her son, Clement, for a
well-deserved rest on the mat she had laid on the floor of their wooden house
built on water. While she was still fast asleep, Clement woke up, crying.
Probably he was hungry. But, she didn’t hear him.
When she eventually woke up,
she could not find her baby boy by her side.
Ahonsu
had thought one of his uncles had come to pick him up. She later realised this
was not the case. A search party was subsequently raised to unravel the mystery
surrounding the boy’s disappearance.
Unknowingly
to her, Clement had fallen into the murky waters a few feet below them. There
was no way he could swim. He was seven-month-old.
His
corpse was found 30 minutes later by an inconsolable group and a distraught
mother when they looked through a hole on the wooden floor. All efforts to
revive him failed. The little boy had drowned in the water underneath his
parent’s house in Makoko, Yaba Local Council Development Area, Lagos.
“Earlier,
my mother had called me to ask if I heard my baby cry, and I had replied,
‘yes,’ but I said that unconsciously from my sleep,” she recollected, with
obvious pain.
The
hole has since been covered up, but the one inside her heart still remains.
“He’s gone and there is nothing I can do about that, I cannot follow him to the
grave. I have not yet recovered from the loss, he was my only child,” she told SUNDAY PUNCH.
A
resident, who did not want to be named, also spoke of a similar incident which
happened four years ago, where his relative lost her two-year-old son who fell
into the water and drowned while playing with his peers. His mother had gone to
the market.
However,
such gut-wrenching incidents are rare in Makoko, a community inhabited by
mostly Egun people. “Every child is taught how to
swim by the age of six,” said Ahonsu’s mother, Magdalene.
Although
Ahonsu stated that she had yet to recover fully from the loss, almost a year
after, she is thankful that she was pregnant, again. The room lit up with
smiles and laughter when our correspondent asked if she already had a name for
her unborn child. They had not chosen a name yet, until the baby is born,
Magdalene replied.
Aged
19 when she first got pregnant, Ahonsu is still learning to deal with the
tragic past. But the present reality for many in Makoko, a peaceful and
sometimes bustling riverine community, where their major occupation is fishing
and trading, is lack of education and high rate of teenage pregnancies.
Since
their forefathers migrated from neighbouring Francophone West African countries
like Togo and Benin Republic, as well as from Badagry, Lagos, most of the
children in the community neither speak nor understand English. They speak
their local Egun dialect and sometimes French.
Findings
show that many young girls in Makoko still find themselves drowning in the
waters of premarital sex.
A
2008 statistics from the World Bank put the percentage of teenage mothers in
Nigeria, aged 15-19 who have had children or are currently pregnant, at 23 per
cent. Low education levels have also been closely linked with early
childbearing.
For example,
19-year-old Suzanna Hunsene, never had proper schooling and does not know how
to speak English. She had her first child at 16, but now she said her
23-year-old husband, who works as a carpenter fixing tiles in houses in the
city, wants a divorce.
“He
doesn’t love me anymore but I am also ready to divorce him,” she said, and
mentioned her 15-year-old friend who was not married but already has a
one-year-old child.
She
isn’t aware of the issues surrounding teenage pregnancy, but told our
correspondent that she just wanted to get on with her life. “I wished I went to
school. But now I want to learn tailoring to help me and my son and to take
care of his future,” she told SUNDAY
PUNCH.
She
wants her three-year-old son, Ayomide, who is nicknamed ‘Baddo’, like popular
Nigerian artiste Olamide, to become a lawyer in future. “We are suffering here
in Makoko. But if he becomes a lawyer, he will be able to defend us against any
planned demolition,” she said.
Over
a year ago, the Lagos State Government had demolished some houses in Makoko,
which it said constituted an environmental nuisance, security risk and a
barrier to the economic use of the waterfront.
Nineteen
-year-old Owolabi Hungbo, still unmarried, had her first child when she was 18.
She also expressed regrets for not acquiring an education, pointing out that
the lack of education and not listening to the advice of their parents and
elders were major impediments to the development of young girls in her
community.
“We
need to have more schools here and the government can help provide vocational
training centres for girls to learn a trade so that they will have something
that can earn them a living and keep them busy. Many young girls are idle,” she
said.
The
lack of any form of infrastructure in densely populated areas such as Makoko
has contributed to the cases of teenage pregnancies, noted Mrs. Princess
Olufemi-Kayode, of Media Concern Initiative (for Women and Children), a
non-governmental organisation.
“Teenage
pregnancies affect nearly every area, but it is more prominent in densely
populated areas and this is due to several environmental and social factors,
lack of infrastructural facilities in healthcare and education, and what they
are exposed to. So, they may have more social problems than others. And if
everybody they know is getting pregnant or married at 14, it would be the
attraction for the majority of these young girls to also want to become
‘madam’,” Kayode explained.
The
2008 Nigeria Demographic and Health Survey, implemented by the National
Population Commission, identified teenage pregnancy as a major health concern
because of its association with higher morbidity and mortality for both the
mother and child. The report also noted that the percentage of teenagers who
have started childbearing decreases with increasing level of education, while
teenagers with no education are more than twice as likely to start childbearing
early as those with primary education.
“Additional
childbearing during the teenage years frequently has adverse social consequences,
particularly regarding educational attainment, because women who become mothers
in their teens are more likely to curtail their education,” the report stated.
MY TAKE:
This is such a sad story. There are various solution but none of them includes making these people homeless. The Government can find a way to make living a little comfortable for them. We have great minds in the Lagos State Government and thinking hasn't yet been banned.
Let them think up a solution, its possible.
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