Nigeria
is on the news again and yes it’s not for a good reason. Mailonline is
reporting a story about how some Nigerians girls are being married out at early
ages and then divorced. Imagined being divorced at just 14 with no education.
Read
their story below:
Maimuna Abdullahi was sold into marriage by her parents for
£120 and abused by her new husband, who locked her away and forced hard labour
on her.
When she ran home she was beaten, first by her father, then
her husband, and was summarily divorced by her husband for daring to flee - and
she is still just 14 years old.
She is one of thousands in Nigeria with similar stories -
and, shockingly, her husband blames his beaten former bride for her ordeal,
saying she was disobedient and over-educated.
After fleeing her husband Mahammadu Saidu, who locked
her away for days at a time, she was whipped by her family for daring to come
home, then attacked by her furious husband as well.
Her battered face swelled so much that doctors feared her
husband had dislocated her jaw. Her back and arms bristled with angry welts
from the whipping her father gave her.
She was gaunt from hunger, dressed in filthy rags. And
barely a year after her wedding, she was divorced.
It would be a tragic story for a woman of any age. But for
Maimuna Abdullahi, it all happened by the time she was 14.
'I'm too scared to go back home,' she whispers, a frown
crinkling her brow as she fiddles nervously with her hands. 'I know they will
force me to go back to my husband.'
Maimuna is one of thousands of divorced girls in Nigeria,
children who were forced into marriage and have since run away or been thrown
out by their husbands.
They are victims of a belief that girls should get wed
rather than educated, which drew the world's attention after Boko Haram
terrorists abducted more than 200 schoolgirls two months ago and threatened to
marry them off. Most are still missing.
Maimuna's former husband, Mahammadu Saidu, blames her few
years of school for her disobedience. A handsome man of 28 who is obviously
proud of his ankle-high boots, he does not deny beating his wife.
'She had too much ABCD,' he says. 'Too much ABCD.'
Nigeria, a young country of about 170 million, has one of
the highest rates of child marriage in the world.
The law of the land states that the age of consent, and thus
of marriage, is 18. However, the custom of child marriage is still ingrained
enough that even a middle-aged federal senator has married five child brides
and divorced at least one.
This is not good. Yet another indictment for Nigeria.
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